I was having a twittersation (Chat via twitter) with my girl Keda the other night and it all started when she mentioned how she finds it disrespectful when a brother tries to “holla” (pursuit her) right in front of a kid. I see things differently. Call me a hopeless romantic but if you think you see Mr. or Mrs. Right and you just so happen to be with your child(ren) I don’t see why one shouldn’t pursuit him/her. Hey, Daddy needs love too! And if Daddy looks anything like Will Smith I don’t mind being the new Girlfriend/Step Mother prospect.
Don’t get me wrong. It’s not like I don’t see Keda’s point. There are some dudes that make it their M O to seek women while walking with their child(ren). Probably using them as bait. It happens all the time especially if the kid is cute. You might become distracted and subconsciously you feel like if you reject the Dad its like you are rejecting the cute kid. I like to call it The Adam Sandler Method*. I know I fell for it a couple of times what about you?
Where do you REALLY stand on this issue? Should a father be on the prowl while spending time with his children?
*I was referring to Adams Sandler movie “Big Daddy”

































